Twenty-two accusers. No, this just in, make that 23. Wait, now it’s 24.
Should NFL suspect Deshaun Watson, the quarterback who got a $ 230 million deal from the Cleveland Browns even though he’s been accused of harassment and assaulting a steadily growing list of female massage therapists?
Sure, the league could do that, and given the sloping bucket of allegations, it wouldn’t be surprising if it did. But should it?
If you go to Browns message boards, scroll through Twitter or just talk to some women, a lot of people are making the case that Watson, the former Houston Texans quarterback, should never throw an NFL pass again.
A suspension for a set number of games this coming season, as their thinking goes, is not enough. Nor is a season, or even two, off. If America’s most popular sports league is to honor its pledge to stand behind women and victims of abuse, Watson needs to be banned.
Watson “should not be playing in the league at all,” says Brenda Tracy, a prominent victims’ rights advocate who travels to the nation’s counseling college and professional athletes to stand against harassment and abuse. “It’s ridiculous. I don’t understand the lengths these leagues will go to protect these men. He needs to go. “
Sure, such a move would be unprecedented. Watson vigorously proclaims his innocence, especially now that two Texas grand juries have decided against proceeding with criminal charges – though that’s not rare in cases where women make sexual harassment claims.
If banned, he would surely press the league for reinstatement. Maybe even sue. Let him try.
A signal would have been sent: The NFL is no longer willing to put up games and the myth and money is ahead of absolutely everything.
I write this with a queasy stomach. I’m still digesting the latest revelations about Watson unearthed by The New York Times’ Jenny Vrentas, whose reporting this week showed that the 26-year-old quarterback engaged in more questionable behavior than anybody.
Watson, we now know, visited at least 66 female massage therapists over 17 months, from the fall of 2019 to the spring of 2021. Among them were strangers tracked down on Instagram and women who worked on a spa on the side of a highway General Chat Chat Lounge
Keenly aware that their bodies are their lifeblood, top NFL players typically find no more than a few experts giving limb-loosening massages.
Having 66 masseurs is no crime, but it is, in fact, a galaxy far from the norm.
Of the 66, some got up for Watson, saying publicly that he did nothing wrong. But last week, two more women pressed claims in civil court, bringing the count of current accusers to 24. Some women who massaged Watson did not call a lawyer or policeman, but even told The Times that Watson was looking for more than a relief from soreness. The sheer numbers are head-spinning, and the portrayals of Watson’s aggression and entitlement are chilling.
The woman who filed the most recent suit acknowledges that Watson masturbated during a massage, ending in a way that satisfied him and demeaned her.
A woman who decided not to sue or complain to police told Vrentas that Watson made repeated requests for sex acts during the massage, including “begging” her to put her mouth on his penis.
“I just had to say, ‘No, I can’t do that,'” the woman said.
Watson and his well-connected legal team have continually denied any wrongdoing. They admit sex occurred on three occasions, but only after the massages, and always at the women’s instigation. “I understand the seriousness of the allegations,” Watson said at a news conference in MarchGeneral Chat Chat Lounge “I’ve never assaulted a single woman. I’ve never disrespected any woman. “
His claims of innocence got a boost when the Browns, a once-proud team now desperate for a championship that has lost any dignity, gave him a better deal than those of Tom Brady, Aaron Rodgers and Russell Wilson: $ 230 million, every penny reportedly guaranteed.
Meantime, NFL investigators are looking into the allegations and Commissioner Roger Goodell is expected to decide on Watson’s possible punishment soon. The history is not encouraging.
In 2014, Goodell, under pressure after video evidence was published, admitted mishandling the Ray Rice domestic abuse case and vowed to do better. But what has changed other than empty promises and marketing campaigns aimed at wooing female fans?
Understand the NFL’s Recent Controversies
A wave of scrutiny. The most popular sports league in America is facing criticism and legal issues on many fronts, ranging from discrimination to athletes’ injuries. Here’s a look at some of the recent controversies confronting the NFL, its executives and teams:
In 2018, Kansas City’s Kareem Hunt, then one of the most promising running backs in football, was videotaped shoving a woman to the ground and kicking her. The NFL suspended Hunt for eight games even though the woman didn’t press charges. Guess who signed Hunt next to Kansas City sent him packing.
The Cleveland Browns did. Clearly, half-season suspensions send no real message.
It’s hard to see how anyone can take the NFL seriously when it says it cares about women and the behavior of everyone involved with the league. Not after its meek responses to Rice and Hunt. Not after it let Antonio Brown play for Tampa Bay and star in the 2021 Super Bowl as he faced accusations of sexual harassment and a lawsuit accusing him of rape. Not when the league fails to appropriately punish Washington commanders, a team riddled with harassment complaints that even ensnared team owner Daniel Snyder.
The league needs to send the most potent message that sexual misconduct will not be tolerated.
I know banishment might sound like a radical, overly harsh punishment. An important part of the NFL fan base says Watson shouldn’t be punished at all. Until proven guilty, say these apologists, part of the club who care more about bread-and-circus entertainment than doing the right thing.
But the NFL can do as it pleases.
Imagine that Watson managed a car dealership. Imagine his bosses found out he faced 24 civil suits alleging sexual misconduct. How long would he have a job?
Imagine Watson was a journeyman NFL practice player few have ever heard of. Should he be getting second chances from teams and the league? No. Journeymen do not get second chances. It’s different for stars (unless you’re a star who kneels during the national anthem and leads the protest against police abuse of black people).
If you really want to imagine something, imagine you’re a massage therapist who trusted a wealthy, famous client who never met, and ended up so hurt and humiliated that you quit work forever, as did one of Watson’s accusers. Maybe that ‘s all the imagining you need to do.